Being „under construction“ is a constant state in life. There is always something to fix, to grow, to change. Rather than chasing perfection, wouldn‘t it be liberating to respect the fact that some things will always be under construction?
Don‘t get me wrong, this should not be an excuse to make no progress. A construction is a progress, it is building something. Something is growing and will be different or better over time, it is just not perfect yet. And might never be.
It is a bit like the quote „Remember the good old days? The good old days of the future, are happening now!“.
So DO WHAT MATTERS Love your family. Live in the moment. Work out and be kind. Take responsibility. Leave this planet better than you found it.